Hey Guys.
I haven’t posted for a while, I’ve been trying to find myself, and by that I mean I don’t know who I am anymore. It sounds cliché but it’s true, I’m a completely different person from what I used to be. The people around me wouldn’t think I’ve changed, but I have inside, my inside is messed up, and I’m just lost.
I’m angry constantly. I blame myself for everything that’s happened, and I take it out on the few people that are actually around me. I’m angry that I don’t see my family, that I’m not the perfect daughter my mother wishes for me to be, that I get lower grades than what’s expected of me. I’m angry that my future career is aimed at my mothers own dream, and not mine. I’m angry at the lack of communication between us, the fact that I can never get myself across, the fact that I’m not strong. I’m angry at myself for losing the group of friends I used to have, at the group of friends I have now, at the great friend they think I am, as I am not that. I’m angry at the fact I went from having 4 best friends, to 2 best friends, to now losing them too. I can feel the distance between us, just the 3 of us it used to be, we called ourselves the Harry Potter group, and the boys used to be Ron and Harry. We were on the same wavelength, I knew what they were thinking before they said it, I knew how to cheer them up, how to talk to them and give them advice, how to read them; but all that’s gone, they finally lost interest as I knew they would, and I doubt I’ll get them back. I’m angry that I push the people I love away, and get angry at them for no valid reason. I’m angry that they put up with me, only to be had a go at and ignored. But they don’t understand my anger, they don’t understand what goes through my head, or why I’m angry, I have yet to properly discover that myself. I’m angry at the melancholy that my body is overwhelmed with. I’m angry that I’m so at peace with the thought of suicide and harming myself. I’ve given up, I don’t care, I’m emotionally drained, but I’m scared at the thought of the process you go through as you’re dying. I’m scared of the consequences, that could mean happiness? I’m angry at the people I love, because how could they love such a horrible person? Rob, Liam, and Dan. Why are you still here? However, I’m angry at myself for being that person. I’m angry at my uncontrollable anger, my lack of willpower and fight, the sadness I portray. I’m angry at these people because I don’t understand what they get out of being here for me, I appreciate them, but in chemistry terminology, emotions for me are like the reactivity series. Which one blows first? Anger, not love, not gratitude, not appreciation, just anger. I get angry at others because I am so angry at myself, I see red, I see no limits, no rules, I don’t see the hurt it’ll bring to that person, I blow my top because that’s what I need to do. It’s a recent thing; I’ve never understood people that can’t control anger, but the sudden realisation has occurred to me and this is what it’s like. I feel ashamed and am so sorry to everyone I hurt on a daily basis, but as I said, I’m a horrible person. I need to get away from the world.
I read something, this woman was ill and her mother didn’t care very much, she wanted to die and she believed in the Lord and prayed everyday. She then prayed to die. The Lord fulfilled this, Her soul was lifted from her body and as she was leaving with Him, she looked at her lifeless body by her bed, still in a praying position. This woman got taken to a horrible place, and anyone that committed suicide would be taken to this room where people were crying and it was just darkness, no heaven, no hell. She experienced the Lord right in front of her, and she got shown hell first, it was people on fire, over and over again. She travelled through to somewhere like Heaven (I can’t remember), and she wished to go back to Earth, back to her sick body. The Lord said not to ever wish to commit suicide ever again, and she didn’t, and they formed something. The Lord helped her to learn to read, He made her slightly better, He helped her clear her sins and paint her heart pure white with blood again, she was clean. He told her to tell everyone on Earth about this experience, but believers of the Lord didn’t believe her story, so she reached out to the non believers.
Somehow, this story got to me, I don’t know fully if it’s real or fake, but it’s so vivid that it can’t be made up, but who knows. Anyway, this story brought me peace within myself just for a short time while I calmed down from a feud I had with my mother. I hope that I can get better, and see the light at the end of the tunnel. I hope that the anger and melancholy goes away. It’s just a case of when. Right now, I must continue to find myself, continue to try to find out what my purpose in life is, and to be kind to the people I love.
Charlotte xxx